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Met a girl at work a few weeks ago. Never knew she worked there until my shifts were swapped. We`ve got on that well that I`ve fallen totally in love with her. I know she likes me a lot but not sure if she feels the same as me. Now she`s left and gone to Lancaster Uni. I didn`t know she was leaving and had no time to tell her how I felt. I have a way to contact her through another work mate but, and here`s the but, I don`t know if I should. `So what`s the problem` I hear you say? My girlfriend and kids at home!

So, do I stay in a unhappy relationship or, take a risk and go after another?

Sounds like this girl likes you as a mate and nothing else! If you reckon she feels the same way about you i.e. fallen in love with you then why has she gone all the way to Lancaster University??

Stay out of it unless you want her to do you for stalking! :/

My only piece of advice on this one is... for ***** sake don`t leave yourself logged in on the PC with this Forum on screen!

There is no decision to make here. Do not go after some girl who may or may not be interested, especially when she has just gone to uni. It really is not worth it. If your relationship is not good, then get out by all means, but forget the girl. Seriously.



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So what`s the problem` I hear you say? My girlfriend and kids at home!
Pathetic!

Got to ask yourself why she left with out telling you or asking to keep in touch. I would say she was just being friendly.

This item was edited on Sunday, 15th January 2006, 14:10

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Pathetic!

Mmm... My thoughts exactly.

Jezzo team, thats a bit harsh innit ?

Regardless, at Uni (unless u have been) is drinkin, sh******, smokin` and at some point going to the odd lecture ot 2..

You are gonni b if u are not laready a distant memory in DAYS , amigo.

There is Lust & there is love...yourz rhymes with dust !

Get over it, or think of a way to tell your kids.




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