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Not been having the best of weeks, first I was assaulted on Saturday (remember that guy who was crank calling me, it was him) to cut a long story short he tried to drag me into his car and hit me and I fought back. Don`t really want to go into it right now but the police were not even remotely interested, they turned up the next day after I called them! Meanwhile I`m left looking like a pirate for Christmas because I have an eye patch on to cover my big swollen eye. F****** **** >:( >:( >:( >:(

My warehouse got broken into as well and I have had about £5k worth of stock stolen which would have been sold at double that price. >:( >:( >:( >:(

I haven`t slept a wink since Tuesday. I last ate something on Tuesday also. I`m terrified of going out and I have to fight it everyday because I will not less this bastard get the better of me. I`m on the edge and stressed out, I have been doing urgents all week at work and I have to work on Christmas f****** eve. >:( I`m snapping and arguing with everybody, I know its not them I`m angry at, I even smashed up all the Christmas presents. :(

I am just tearful all the time and prone to crying outbursts. As if this time of year isn`t hard enough for me already. :( I`m hanging in there, barely.

Trying to retain what Christmas spirit is left in me, I wish you and all of your families a Merry Christmas. :)

Look in to my eyes, look in to my eyes, not around the eyes........ You`re under!
Sleep.

Seriously, It sounds like you have had it ever so bad. I remember you talking bout that guy on your phone. Is that hopefully now the end of it, do the police have him in custody? Your stuff in the warehouse was insured right? Being a pirate is cool, tell people you are off to do a panto and if they don`t believe you tell them you are a goonie! I hope your fella is taking care of you and TBH you should just ring in sick or see a doctor and have some time off to sort yourself out (sleep & eat). The christmas pressies being smashed up is not a worry, whoever you are giving them too will understand (tell em they are 23 piece jigsaws ;) :/ )

I really hope you rest, recooperate, feel better and can enjoy what the next year brings. We were worried about you.

Hope the new year brings you happiness and wellbeing.
Gav + All the other blokes at reviewer.

Happy new year!!



Is that the time? Give me a minute and I will be there when I finish on the comp!

:o :o :o :o :o :o :o

Jesus Christ! Glad to hear you`re ok :)

No wonder you`re in a bit of state, I think we all would be if we`d been through what you have :( Try not to let it get you down (easier said than done, eh?) and have a merry Christmas :)

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Nina

So sorry - you sound as if you`ve been put through the mill :(

I can only recommend some counselling at this difficult time. Try Victim Support for a sympathetic ear and more useful practical advice on how to deal with this.

Hope things get much, much better, very quickly! :)

Have a peaceful Christmas (from now on). :)

Andy


SN

First, if the boys in blue aren`t interested they need to be made interested. Winge long and loud as far up the promotional tree as you can get and then hassle your MP over it.
Theres an election coming up and law and order will be a major factor, concentrates their minds wonderfully.
I`d also suggest the local rag but if your not in the mood to talk about it on here that`s probably out.
Please take up the suggestion of Victim support or some similar organisation, your going to have to vent that anger somewhere and it may as well be constructive.

Life does sometimes seem that it loves kicking you when your down.
Bottle of your favourite hooch, box of Kleenex and when you sober up start kicking back.

Nil illigitemus carborundum.


Snaps

S*** Nina.......I hope your feeling much better soon.

Presents are transitory, people are not. I hope they throw the book at the guy, you may need to get a restraining order on him if the cops don`t do anything. There should be evidence from the crank call records & the physical assault for the police to act, I am at a loss to explain their response again.

The people around you will realise why you are flying off the handle at them.

Well done in fighting him off & trying not to let it beat you.

Hugs & support is here from all of us when you need it.

Merry Christmas to you & your OH Nina from me, Unicorn & the kids.

Happy New year will come later next week. ;)




My Christmas Message "First they tell me the peace is on, then it`s peace off!"

Ohhhhh Nina. :( **Hugs**

Initial thoughts were: at least now you know who he is and surprise surprise the police are s***. I say go down to the police station and make a huge angry fuss - speak to the officer you spoke to when the phone stuff was happening.

Keep us posted.

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Nina... sorry to here your bad news, please dont tar all the Police with the same brush, get back in contact with them, ask to speak to a supervisor if your not getting the attention you feel you should...

as somebody already suggested, contact victim support... they can be of great use to anyone who has been a victim...

and dont forget us... you can always PM many of us if there is something we can help with,

try and forget this last week, and have a great xmas,
Mark.



`I am going to live forever, or die trying`...

Nina,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Don`t let that Bastard get you down. We are all here for you.

Will :)

Nina, I am so sorry to here this has happend to you.
I know its easy to say it but please please don`t let this get you down.
Hope the bruises heal and you get lots of TLC from your BF, family over the xmas time.

Don`t hasitate to get councilling as the mind also needs time to heal....

Take care. Merry christmas :D